Well our trip up for my grandmother's funeral was a wide range of emotions. We arrived in DC on Thursday and spend the day with my uncle's family and my mom and dad, and sister. It was a nice day and the trip up was totally uneventful. Drew didn't sleep much on Thursday night, but that meant he would sleep in the car up to PA. We headed up for PA late morning on Friday. It was a decent trip. The boys were great the whole way up. We stopped at a Burger King for lunch. That was interesting indeed. Apparently, the person behind the counter was very rude and extremely stingy. It started out with my sister asking for ketchup. He handed her two and would give her no more. Then Jeff asked for a water. He specifically asked if water cost anything. They guys said no, but charged Jeff 10 cents for a courtesy cup. Not much of a courtesy. I guess he wasn't lying since the water itself was free...just not the cup. Jeff asked the wrong question. Then he came to the table and there was no drink with Matthew's happy meal. I sent him back for a juice. The guy proceeded to tell him that he gave him a cup, which he didn't. Jeff brought back the water cup and the guy argued with Jeff that a juice was 44 cents more. Finally the manager gave Jeff the juice, only after the guy behind the counter slammed 10 cents on the counter and threw away Jeff's "courtesy cup." We were certainly happy to leave there. We wanted more ketchup, but were afraid to ask. Needless to say, I didn't give them a glowing review when I called the hot line. ;-) Stay away from Burger King's in Wilmington, DE.
When we arrived in PA, we stopped by to visit my step-grandmother. It was great to see her and the boys had fun. Drew especially loved playing with her cat Bud Lite. It was too cute!!! We headed to the hotel to change and then off to the viewing. It was wonderful to see family that I haven't see in forever!! I have to say Nana didn't look like Nana to me, but then again, she wasn't there...just her body. The boys (Matthew and his cousin Ethan) had a great time running and playing. It was so much fun to watch Matthew play so hard with another kid his own age. It was so cute. They just followed each other everywhere. Matthew really talked so much more around Ethan. He sang parts of Happy Birthday on his own, sang a song from the Backyardigans, and used several 2-3 word phrases. He is also talking a lot of jargon, which Ethan seemed to understand. It was a good night. However, it was another night where Drew didn't sleep much. I have so many bruises on my legs from running into my sister's cot going to get Drew in the middle of the night.
Saturday was a LOOOOOONNNNNNGGGGG day!! We had a great breakfast and then relaxed for a little before the long part of the day began. Tania, Drew and I headed to Nana's funeral...only to get lost once on the way (nice GPS Dad). We arrived a few minutes late, but they waited for us, which was nice. It was a great service and my dad did an amazing job speaking. He talked about his daughters fighting like cats and dogs...I guess he meant some other daughters that he must have...Tania and I have never fought. (I write as I get struck by lightning). ;-) I got to listen to the whole service from another room as I chased Drew all around the funeral home. We then headed to the cemetery. That was brief, but nice. We even got a chance to visit Mom-mom's grave site. That was nice. We then headed to a church for a gathering. It was great to catch up with family, some of which I haven't seen in years and years. (Some that I -apparently- haven't seen since I was a child. I don't really remember). But it was nice. Matthew and Ethan stayed at the hotel with Aunt Liliana to nap...that was a great idea!! Drew napped on his Uncle Ken instead. That evening we ate at the hotel restaurant with Kay, mom, dad, Tania, Ken, Liliana, Ethan, and the boys. I have to say the restaurant was not up to par with the hotel. We were happy to hear that they were not owned by the same people. The food was sub par, the service was less than great, and prices were way too high. They even commented on us bringing our own cake...how the "chef" and I use that term loosely, doesn't allow outside cakes. They were kind enough to make and exception, but couldn't offer us a sharp knife for liability purposes. It is a good thing I didn't order a steak...I couldn't have cut it. ;-) Anyway, other then the not so great place...the company was great and it was wonderful to celebrate Drew's 1st birthday. :-)
Now I always said that I wanted to breastfeed my boys for a year. For Matthew he bit me on his first birthday, and that was the end of it for him. Now Drew, I thought would go longer than one year. However, he breastfed the morning of his birthday. However, that night and from then on....he wants nothing to do with breastfeeding anymore. I guess he weened himself. Jeff seems to think he took the one year deadline very seriously...like a one year old could do that, but hey...who knows. I am just thankful that I did make it to a year.
The next day we ate breakfast, drove back to DC and caught a flight home. Now Drew took a partial nap in the car, but Matt had no nap at all. Jeff and I were sure they would sleep on the plane. Well, they did sleep on the plane, but only for the last minutes of the flight as we were landing. Gotta love it. It was a long flight of keeping both overly tired boys entertained for the 3 hour flight. I was so happy when we landed. Matthew never woke up once he fell asleep. Jeff carried him in his seat to the baggage claim. He kept sleeping as we took him out of the seat so I could install it. Never woke up even when I took him out, changed his diaper and outfit and put him to bed. He was wiped out!!!!
All this to say, we are glad to be home. It was great to see family, to celebrate Nana's life and Drew's birthday, but there really is no place like home. (At least when you are traveling with 2 kids age 1 and 2). We would like to send out a special prayer to friends of ours who recently suffered the loss of their new baby girl, and other friends of ours who lost their baby girl at 22 weeks. Our prayers are with them and their families. Please lift them up in your prayers as well. Love from Texas!!
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